ABC and 123: Teaching Responsiblity with Chores

Sunday, September 6, 2009

Teaching Responsiblity with Chores

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As parents, when we think of back to school time we often make new goals for our families. It is a good opportunity to define new responsibilities and to give everyone a fresh start. We search for ways to foster independence and to make our homes run more smoothly. Throughout September we will be highlighting a few different aspects of teaching responsibility. This Sunday we are talking about CHORES! Help with chores, when done correctly, makes for happy moms and dads.

As with anything we are hoping to teach our children, assigning chores requires a fair amount of modeling, role playing, step sequencing, and positive reinforcement.

Before assigning chores it is necessary to consider what jobs may or may not be appropriate for your child.

~Mariel at Or So She Says has a post listing age appropriate chores for children.

~Joanne McNulty has put together lists of Appropriate Chores for Children by age. She has a list for 2-4 year olds, 4-7, 8-11, and 11-18.

Family Tips suggests 3 ways to Teach Your Children to Clean.

Goal for It offers free chore charts, however you do need to register to use the site.

Handipoints is a similar service useful for creating free chore charts.

Deck of Chores has come up with a clever card game to make chore time more fun! This game is appropriate for family members of all ages.

The Deck of Chores comes with instructional cards and suggested games, including Parent's Choice and Kid's Choice, however these colorful cards can be used in hundreds of different ways.

Our family has been experimenting with the Deck of Chores cards for about 3 months. Our chore aged children are 5 and 3. At this point we still spend quite a bit of time teaching what it means to do chores correctly. I will often pull out a card a day to display as the chore we will be practicing. Once the kids are successful with that particular chore it is put into the draw pile for more frequent independent use.

I love the size of these sturdy cards. They are large enough to hold the bold graphics that grab the kids attention. They are also easy enough to hold on to without losing. As we've used them we've found large wooden clips to hold the kid's "hand" while they are in play. However, I think it would be fantastic if Deck of Chores would market a clip of some sort that matches the cards to sell with the deck. Just an idea...

The suits on the cards are familiar as they are the same seen on a regular deck of cards, yet each of the 52 cards is accompanied by the name of a chore and a visual representation of that chore. After a brief introduction, even my three year old can easily identify which job she has been assigned based on the pictures.

Most of the suggested games encourage you to record your child's progress on a chore chart. You may want to reference the free services listed above or design your own.

Interested in hearing a sample game?
Game Option #1 for 2 or more players:
Each player is dealt seven cards. Place the deck down in the middle of the table. Turn over the top card to create a discard pile. During your turn you can discard any cards that match the number or suit of the card facing up. If you don' t have any cards to discard, draw from the deck until you can. The first person to get rid of all their card wins. The people with cards remaining perform the chores shown on their cards.

Thinking back, I sure wish our college sorority house would have had a deck of these cards. It may have saved us time and arguments about which responsibilities belonged to whom and maybe our house would have been clean enough to invite mom and dad in when they came to visit - smiles!!

The Deck of Chores promotes confidence, responsibility, and a sense of accomplishment while teaching children the valuable skills necessary for making a home run smoothly.

Deck of Chores is available for purchase in their online store for $14.99 a pack.
Or...you can WIN a deck of your own by entering their giveaway here on ABC & 123!

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This giveaway will close next Sunday, September 13th, at 10:30 PM EST.
The winner will be announced on Monday the 14th!

Good Luck & Happy Cleaning!!!

46 comments:

  1. Checked out the site! (Site could use some work - but don't hold that against me!)

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  2. I hate all chores. There. I said it. Although I don't mind washing dishes or clothes but I hate putting both away!

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  3. Following Deck of Chores via Twitter.

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  4. My least favorite chore is putting away laundry. Emilys favorite chore is helping me empty the dishwasher.

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  5. I looked at the deck of chores site and think this is the greatest game ever made!

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  6. My least favorite chore, by far, is ironing the clothes.

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  7. My least favorite chore is doing the dishes!! I'm not sure my kids have a favorite chore.

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  8. As for a game, I would probably do a "go fish" kind of game. We would stop when we all have 3 matches. Then, we would go "work".

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  9. Chores are the backbone to a family's sanity

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  10. I checked out the site. What language is that?

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  11. Let's see... My 4yo's favorite chore is picking up her room (but only so she can get a sticker on her chart.). My 22mo's favorite chore is unloading the clean utensils from the dishwasher.

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  12. I can see us all drawing a card and racing to see who can complete it the fastest!

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  13. I hate to mop.
    iluvchrisnlevi@aol.com

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  14. I'm a follower of ABC.
    iluvchrisnlevi@aol.com

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  15. I'm not able to load the site :-(
    The concept looks awesome - I love how the picture shows the action so the littles can "read" their chore!

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  16. I follow your site AND I have your button on my blog!

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  17. My 3.5 year old's fav chore is to give the dogs their fresh water each day. She has a special little pitcher that I fill for her so she can pour it into the dog dish by herself. She is very proud of that!

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  18. My (little) kids favorite chore is washing dishes---I believe it has something to do with WATER!!

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  19. my least favorite is sweeping!!

    My children love setting the table for dinner.

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  20. I envision having scheduled chore times set up during the day...the kids would choose a card from the deck to determine what chore would be done in that time! (I would also probably add to the cards the number of pennies that would be earned for the piggy bank for that chore! My boys love to put pennies in their bank!)

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  21. We just started doing chores. Love that these cards give you a little versitility in what works best for you.

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  22. Least favorite chore is picking up toys.

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  23. I DO NOT like folding and putting clothes away! My son LOVES helping me cook! He's always at my side when I'm cooking and baking.

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  24. I checked out the site. I like that they have blank cards that you can put other chores on if needed. Thanks for the giveaway. mybabyappleseed(at)yahoo(dot)ca

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  25. My least favourite chore is the dishes. My 5 yr olds favourite chore is sorting the socks and putting them away in the right person's drawers. mybabyappleseed(at)yahoo(dot)ca

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  26. I now follow. mybabyappleseed(at)yahoo(dot)ca

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  27. If there was a specific chore that needed to be done you could take out the other cards from the deck with the same number and set them aside and then play Old Maid to see who gets the dreaded chore. mybabyappleseed(at)yahoo(dot)ca

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  28. I HATE cleaning toilets!
    My kids LOVE to vacuum.
    mobsquad_sc@yahoo.com

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  29. I'm a follower.

    mobsquad_sc@yahoo.com

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  30. subscribed on my reader - have been for awhile!

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  31. Saw the site - glad there are blank cards!

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  32. Saw the site - glad there are blank cards!

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  33. Least fav - ironing...so I don't :)

    My kids love most any - but we need to get more regular about them.

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